The marriage proposal is perhaps the most awaited moment in any woman's life, and everyone imagines this event differently. The pressure is quite high on each man because the moment of the request reflects with a lot of accuracy each man's attention to what his partner wants. Even though we come across this remark in comedy shows, we can say with certainty that the signs for a perfect request have always been there.
How do you prepare a marriage proposal?
The whole moment must be prepared very well so that you don't wake up that a small detail can ruin the whole event, or worse, that the partner doesn't understand the message, being convinced that everything is a joke (a joke that we don't know how much she will like) . The request must always be accompanied by an engagement ring suitable for the partner, otherwise the event is incomplete. One simple Google away you can find out how others did it, what locations they chose, what ring, flowers or words, but the best advice is to say what you feel, honestly and think about the things and places that have meaning for the couple your. Anything else is just another couple's story and the chances are slim that they represent you.
The subject of the request
As I said before, don't be influenced by what you see in other people. The beauty of the marriage proposal is that it is tailored to each individual couple. You always have to consider your girlfriend's passions and personality and don't try to make things too different from a normal day, especially if you want to keep the element of surprise until the end. A much too spectacular marriage proposal can turn into a failure if the lady is introverted and values privacy more. Notice to those who thought to turn the request into a public event with many spectators, mostly foreigners. Always start from her passions and try to play with the decor in a way that is creative and not embarrassing for you, her or both of you.
Place is important
Do you remember the place of your first date? Or her favorite park bench? Maybe her favorite restaurant, no matter how unpretentious it is. Whenever you were making vacation plans, did you pay attention and remember her dream destination, the place she has wanted to go since she was a dreamy teenager? All of these are a goldmine for demand timing and you can confidently call on all of these locations to make the entire event a success. It is important to always keep in mind that She must feel good and comfortable where the request takes place.
Who can you rely on?
Have you thought of a script as well? Do you have an artistic side and think you can direct the whole moment so that it is worthy of a movie? Congratulations on your creativity, but there are a few things to keep in mind.
Do not involve many people in the event because it is more difficult to coordinate all the actors of the moment. And you always have to keep in mind that some people are not good at acting and can kill you in seconds. Except for those who have actors in their entourage. Otherwise, if everyone has their place and role in the scenario, there is a huge chance that a request worthy of telling everyone will come out.
The engagement ring
The centerpiece of the request is the engagement ring. There's a huge amount of pressure on the groom-to-be to choose the right ring, but just like the venue, everything is worked out with attention to detail. When choosing the engagement ring it is very important to think about how and what the chosen one usually wears. Another "folk saying" says that the value of the ring should not exceed your income for two months, so it is good to prepare your budget some time in advance. The most popular models are those with diamonds, but depending on the preferences of the lucky lady, you can also opt for emeralds or sapphires.
Ideas for a successful marriage proposal
For those of you who can't decide how and where to propose, we thought we'd help you out with a number of creative directions that can make the difference between a sure-fire "yes" and a blown "mda" lip.
- If you have a favorite restaurant, you can organize so that her favorite song is played in the speakers at the exact moment you ask her if she wants to be your wife;
- Is her favorite band coming to town, or does she have a concert somewhere relatively close? Perfect! You have two surprises in one event: the concert tickets and the application. And if you give a message to the artists there is a good chance that they will agree to help you so that you organize the whole event on stage;
- Few marriage proposals compare to the moments when you are alone on a beach at sunset listening to the waves together;
- They say that the way you start your New Year's Eve will mark your next 12 months, so why not give yourself the best 12 months of your life with a marriage proposal that will mark your future?;
- Are you in front of a tourist attraction that you have been dreaming of seeing for years? This is the perfect time. How often do you get there?;
- If you are a follower of mysterious requests, you could send a bouquet of flowers and the ring in a beautiful package to her workplace;
- As in the case of concerts, you could call on the support of professional actors if you have just bought tickets to one of the plays that you both have been waiting to see for a very long time;
- We all know the famous chocolate eggs with surprises. How about hiding a note in such an egg with the message "will you be my wife?";
- By using several signs you can surprise her when she is at the office and looking out the window;
- Is your girlfriend passionate about reading? Wonderful. He definitely has a favorite bookstore or book. A simple note between the pages of the book can make her say "yes";
- It may seem like an intrusive method, but also spectacular at the same time: change your name in her phone and when you call her it will appear on the screen that she is being called by "Will you be my wife?". How can they not answer with "yes"?
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